Essays

A selection of Essays for a time in your life.

I wanted to write “random” before selection.

But as much as I sometimes think we are forging a path through a chaotic allegory,

I do believe in an order to it all. Of our own making.

Simple. Stories we pull into our own life. Stumble upon. Spend a second skimming.

Needed in the moment. Or not. But there nonetheless.

  • Teach Your Children Well

    Teach Your Children Well

    Tree frogs start their summer evening songs in the scented boxwoods and lilacs and assorted bee attracting foliage that shade our leisure evening view over the children running and playing on the green fields of their country club bubble.  We’re talking about them.  As usual.  Do moms talk about anything…

  • You Suck at Basketball – Kids Say Stuff and How to Counter it.

    You Suck at Basketball – Kids Say Stuff and How to Counter it.

      Sitting by the pool, a friend and I were watching our boys somersaulting off the diving board when she mentioned – “A friend of Ryan (not his real name) has been telling him: ‘You suck at basketball’ and this has hurt his feelings. I’m not really sure what to…

  • Just One Thing

    Just One Thing

    I sat down at a table next to a woman in Starbucks, head buried in her computer, tapping away furiously. On a second glance I recognized her as an acquaintance. She looked up and we exchanged pleasantries. Not that she felt much like casual small talk. “I’ve just quit my…

  • Shot At Dawn: In Flanders fields the poppies blow

    Shot At Dawn: In Flanders fields the poppies blow

    In Flanders fields the poppies blow Between the crosses, row on row ……… They blew in May 1915 when Canadian army doctor, John McCrae, wrote these immortal lines. They blow today.  Colorful memorials of a war-torn world entrenched in the bloody, muddy fields of France and Flanders. On route to the…

  • In Your Grief – Thoughts on a Sudden Death

    In Your Grief – Thoughts on a Sudden Death

    Let the flowers die unwatered in their vases. Flowers?  Yes, they are there.  Someone needed to do something.  Accept them graciously.  Or not.  God knows this is bleak, unchartered territory for you ….. You with this gaping hole, groping around in the dark.  Sleepwalking.  If sleep would only come and…

  • This Adult Coloring Thing

    This Adult Coloring Thing

    Three of the top ten books on Amazon’s best selling list are adult coloring books. I am not sure whether to be appalled at the dumbing down of the American intellect or amused at our attempts to escape the stress our children cause us by immersing ourselves in one of…

  • You Can’t Parent Happy

    You Can’t Parent Happy

    Welcome to the age of parenting in a world that is supercharged with agendas, celebrates success regardless of merit and fast tracks early front runners, deserving or not. My friends and I lament the state we find ourselves in. We are caught in a riptide of super-competitive parenting, a race…

  • A Big, Bold Blessing Bag Plan

    A Big, Bold Blessing Bag Plan

    Synchronicity (what a beautiful word) is the extraordinary concept of the coming together of inner and outer events in a way that can’t be explained by cause and effect and that is meaningful to the observer.  CNN recently covered it in an article titled, The Other Side : Where do…